Honesty Really Is The Best Policy

When you join an online dating service you are looking for a girl you like ... even come to love. The girl is looking for a guy who loves, or even love. What you want is a girl who would your best friend or your idea of ??what the perfect guy looks like or talk like it or agree with. So to find the right girl for you ... and is there ... You must be completely honest with yourself about yourself when writing the online profile, during the dating process and beyond.



The best way to start writing your profile is to carefully analyze your past relationship (s). What was true? What was the problem? What has made things very similar to the last girl? What does not? Do not assume that just because you hated your last girl was so totally absorbed that he could not see anything, you will be able to forget that the quality of that time. It will not.



If you are not 6'1 "with a six-pack to be proud of, do not pretend to be. If you are a bartender, do not claim to be a lawyer with a six-figure income. If you are 40 going 50, do not pretend to be 30 something.



Remember, the idea is to find a girl like you. If you lied on your profile, the first face to face to remove all his doubts about whether you are a liar ... and probably cheating.



Finally, once you've found a girl who you think might be something for you, for the love of God, to cancel your membership for dating services online. Despite everything you know and she knows that online dating services are for those who are looking ... not those who have found or been found.