Forgiveness In Relationships

In real life, the law rarely forgives an evil deed. In most countries the law is clear in the statement. We still hear a lot about forgiveness in personal relationships. We are told to forgive blunders. We are asked to forgive and forget and live as if nothing had happened. Does that work? To some extent, yes, and not to some extent.

Most of those injured in the relationship is not to forgive everyone. The result is that pain sufferers life. We are called to forgive so that at least we can feel at peace. If you do not forgive, our own peace is lost forever and we suffer. Forgiveness is for us. Forgiveness does not always mean that the attacker can continue the same behavior. No need to tell the offender who has forgiven him / her. They suffer from what they did. But forgiveness in his own mind, you get peace.

The relationship after forgiving - the relationship can never make the same level and intensity, after all errors have been made. No amount of forgiveness can never bring the relationship back.

This report again - I said earlier that the ratio will return to the level of all time, when a great mistake was made. This is true. But what happens if your partner wants to return to the previous level? How should I do? In this case, the attacker would ask for forgiveness again and again. Only when the victim is satisfied, forgiveness can come into force to the extent that the relationship will be back to normal